Aside from a wedding invitation, a birthday invitation is the best way to inform loved ones that you are going to celebrate another milestone in your life. But there are some birthdays more special than others. For adults, these are milestones that impact the passage of time; such as the 30th, 40th, and 50th birthdays or even a 100th birthday! These are reasons to celebrate and need a special milestone birthday invitations to bring the message to your friends and family so they will be around to celebrate the occasion with you.
Specially created for you, custom birthday invitations show the relevance of the occasion. Just as you would also prefer a customized wedding invitation, you have the option to personally design the invitation or have it customized by some reputable printing shops. Here are some ideas you can adopt in designing your milestone birthday invitation card:
Your 18th Birthday- A great kick off to start the celebration is by sending personalized invitations which will fit your theme. This is the best way to mark your entrance into the adult world with family and friends. Choose 18 roses, 18 pastel candles or pink balloons as part of your design.
30th Birthday - Consider every conceivable theme and pattern to make it more personal and creative. The tone can be casual to formal using eye-catching designs and shapes to make the occasion stand out. It could be colorful and vibrant similar to an ethnic wedding invitation.
40th Birthday- Greet your 40th year with a Smile! Make these invitations memorable, specially designed to highlight unforgettable moments. Custom birthday Invitation might be chic, funny, serious or whimsical.
50th Birthday - With age comes wisdom-and fun! Whether your goal is to toast or roast, your guests will be glad that you are having another milestone; meeting your age with dignity and a sense of humor. Or just as romantic in tone as your wedding invitation from decades ago.
60th Birthday - Send personalized invitations to family and friends to celebrate your 60th year; the best reason to have a party. Designs that are colorful, bold and festive, or perhaps a black and white motif will make invitation cards appealing.
70th Birthday -70 is a great accomplishment! It is a fact that any birthday ending in zero is great, especially the 70th birthday. A grand milestone birthday celebration is coming.
100th Birthday - It is almost incredible to reach a century. Make the invitation fantastic! Place a photo of the celebrant in a favorite picture framed and in the circle place the number 100. You can print all the details of the events below and even in the back.
Depending upon the time and your type of personality, the tone of the custom birthday invitation can be appreciative, complimentary, funny, heartfelt, inspirational, lighthearted, religious, romantic, simply stated and suggestive.
Senin, 30 Oktober 2017
Kamis, 05 Oktober 2017
You Think You Make Conscious Decisions About Your Intimate Relationships? Think Twice!
You think that you make decisions logically and thoughtfully, out of awareness to your needs and will? Think twice! This isn't always the case. Your decisions and choices are controlled by the messages you internalized, perception of reality you have developed, fears, expectations and fantasies. These all influence the way you react and behave in your relationships.
MEG
Meg and George moved in together about a week after they met and immediately began to talk about having a family and raising children. They were in heaven. Everything seemed perfect. They didn't use contraceptives.
The crisis started when Meg discovered she was pregnant. Suddenly, she backed off from her desire for a family. She felt she wasn't ready yet; that first she wanted to obtain a profession. She didn't understand why she'd been so hasty.
Explanation
As a child, Meg internalized the message that "a girl should marry young and have children". Without being aware, this message affected her "choice" of so quickly moving in with George and immediately thinking about a family.
SANDRA
Not a day goes by without Sandra arguing with Dave about straightening up the house. She reproaches him, saying that he never helps out, claiming that he's self-centered and inconsiderate. He tells her to get off his back and stop telling him what to do. They have the same fight every day, and it's beginning to ruin their relationship.
Explanation
Sandra is not aware that mimicking her mother, she's become a prisoner of her "choice" to maintain a clean home at all times. She's not able to change her behavior (which by now has become a pattern), even though it's sabotaging her relationship with Dave.
Why the "choices" you make are not conscious?
How is it that many of the "choices" you make are not conscious - and nevertheless you often believe they are?
The answer is simple: you are often not aware of the many factors affecting your "choices". You have grown up unconsciously internalizing messages and adopting perceptions and beliefs that drive your choices.
SALLY
Sally really wants to cultivate a permanent, secure relationship but for some reason, she always ends up with partners who abandon her. She doesn't understand how that keeps happening to her. Could it be that "all men are the same"?
Explanation
Sally grew up in a home in which her parents were always fighting. Her father constantly threatened to leave until one day he actually did. This situation created the belief in her mind that: "That's the way men are, they always leave". This belief drives her into relationships with men who always leave her:
* Sometimes she unconsciously "chooses" men who aren't free (married; workaholics; afraid of commitment). Through these "choices" she "protects" herself: she knows in advance that one day they'll leave.
* Sometimes she "chooses" to behave in ways that will cause her partners to leave (she accuses them of cheating; smothers them with her neediness; argues with them constantly).
As long as Sally will not become aware of her "choices", she is likely to sabotage her relationships time and again.
Just like Sally, so do Pablo's unconscious "choices" of behavior sabotage his relationship:
PABLO
Pablo was often sick and always expected Doreen to take care of him. When she didn't, he would protest angrily and demand more attention. The more time passed and the more often Pablo got sick, the more they argued.
Explanation
As a child, Pablo suffered from asthma, and each time he had an attack, his mother nursed him devotedly. Pablo learned that when he needs attention, the way to get it is to become sick. He is not aware of his own "choice" of behavior. When Doreen doesn't take care of him with the devotion he's grown accustomed to from his mother, he protests angrily. His behavior distances Doreen instead of bringing her closer.
MEG
Meg and George moved in together about a week after they met and immediately began to talk about having a family and raising children. They were in heaven. Everything seemed perfect. They didn't use contraceptives.
The crisis started when Meg discovered she was pregnant. Suddenly, she backed off from her desire for a family. She felt she wasn't ready yet; that first she wanted to obtain a profession. She didn't understand why she'd been so hasty.
Explanation
As a child, Meg internalized the message that "a girl should marry young and have children". Without being aware, this message affected her "choice" of so quickly moving in with George and immediately thinking about a family.
SANDRA
Not a day goes by without Sandra arguing with Dave about straightening up the house. She reproaches him, saying that he never helps out, claiming that he's self-centered and inconsiderate. He tells her to get off his back and stop telling him what to do. They have the same fight every day, and it's beginning to ruin their relationship.
Explanation
Sandra is not aware that mimicking her mother, she's become a prisoner of her "choice" to maintain a clean home at all times. She's not able to change her behavior (which by now has become a pattern), even though it's sabotaging her relationship with Dave.
Why the "choices" you make are not conscious?
How is it that many of the "choices" you make are not conscious - and nevertheless you often believe they are?
The answer is simple: you are often not aware of the many factors affecting your "choices". You have grown up unconsciously internalizing messages and adopting perceptions and beliefs that drive your choices.
SALLY
Sally really wants to cultivate a permanent, secure relationship but for some reason, she always ends up with partners who abandon her. She doesn't understand how that keeps happening to her. Could it be that "all men are the same"?
Explanation
Sally grew up in a home in which her parents were always fighting. Her father constantly threatened to leave until one day he actually did. This situation created the belief in her mind that: "That's the way men are, they always leave". This belief drives her into relationships with men who always leave her:
* Sometimes she unconsciously "chooses" men who aren't free (married; workaholics; afraid of commitment). Through these "choices" she "protects" herself: she knows in advance that one day they'll leave.
* Sometimes she "chooses" to behave in ways that will cause her partners to leave (she accuses them of cheating; smothers them with her neediness; argues with them constantly).
As long as Sally will not become aware of her "choices", she is likely to sabotage her relationships time and again.
Just like Sally, so do Pablo's unconscious "choices" of behavior sabotage his relationship:
PABLO
Pablo was often sick and always expected Doreen to take care of him. When she didn't, he would protest angrily and demand more attention. The more time passed and the more often Pablo got sick, the more they argued.
Explanation
As a child, Pablo suffered from asthma, and each time he had an attack, his mother nursed him devotedly. Pablo learned that when he needs attention, the way to get it is to become sick. He is not aware of his own "choice" of behavior. When Doreen doesn't take care of him with the devotion he's grown accustomed to from his mother, he protests angrily. His behavior distances Doreen instead of bringing her closer.
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